Saturday, June 14, 2014

The Party's Just Begun

  Over the last few months I have started at least five posts for this blog. Obviously all five have been a complete bust because I didn't publish a single one. I couldn't get the words right. I didn't want to publish just for the sake of publishing; I wanted my words to matter; if not to anyone else, to me. I found a few quotes here and there each day but nothing that resulted in an awe-inspired piece of writing. Until last night.


   Recently my class of seniors entered the "real world." Naturally, the week prior to the ceremony we were all buzzing with excitement. It may have been the fact that, finally, we were going to be finished with public school. There is a distinct moment that someone becomes very aware what graduating actually means. Freedom, yes but I think this change is more about being free to live your life. It's about what comes next and what you choose to do with that newfound freedom.

   At the end of the graduation they played a slideshow from the year. Along with a stream of pictures of every senior, Phillip Phillips' Home played along to epitomize the years that will follow such a life-changing event:

"Hold on, to me as we go

As we roll down this unfamiliar road

And although this wave (wave) is stringing us along

Just know you're not alone
Cause I'm gonna make this place your home

Settle down, it'll all be clear

Don't pay no mind to the demons

They fill you with fear

The trouble it might drag you down

You get lost, you can always be found



Just know you're not alone

Cause I'm gonna make this place your home"


   It's a very appropriate song for a room full of students preparing to embark on a new and excitingly terrifying journey. But it goes beyond graduations I think. Every day we are given a chance of a new adventure. And with that adventure there are going to be risks. That’s the beauty of living, and of adventure.

   Although there is a nothing new under the sun, each day brings about a new set of wonders and a new set of challenges that may be new to your eyes. With each amazing new discovery be sure to have something to hold onto. Whether it is a conviction or a person -anything that will help you become unshakeable. Like it says in this song, this road is unfamiliar, the song does not say that it impossible.  

   Throughout life, decisions will need to be made. Actions will need to be taken. If you’re anything like me, those two things are undeniably and unavoidably terrifying. For instance, I have to pick where I want to live. Stay here in Austin or go to away to Lubbock. One option is a better financial option and the other is what I want. Whatever I choose, I know I won’t be there on my own. I have a family of friends here and a family of friends waiting for me there. The same is true wherever life takes you. As long as you remember you’re not alone, any city in the world can become your home.

   So the next time you’re thinking about being afraid to live your life because of the mundane fears of everyday life, don’t. Risk is out there. That’s the beauty of living, and of adventure.
 
   There is a beautiful quote from the movie Steel Magnolias that says “I would rather have 30 minutes of something wonderful than a lifetime of nothing special.” Though it’s true, you only live once; the screaming of “YOLO” ad nauseam gets old extremely fast. I love this because the message of carpe diem and YOLO derived from good intentions. The intention that life is meant to be lived without fear and without regrets. Each day is a gift, and every gift must be opened in order to be find something wonderful.



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If you keep up with my sporadic posting I can't say how much I appreciate you. I wanted to let you know that This summer I will be challenging myself on posting a little something everyday. There is a trending hashtag, #100happydays. I will be doing my own variation titled 100 Days To Happy, where I share something that either made me happy that day along with a quote that has to do with happiness. So stay tuned for more exiting posts. Have a joy filled summer!

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