Thursday, June 26, 2014

100 Days to Happy: Harder Than It Looks

   So I haven't posted all week... It's a lot harder than it looks. Not because I haven't been having bad days but rather my days have been filled with with much good. From the time I wake up to the time I go to sleep I'm surrounded by amazing people that I am able to learn from or just have fun with. To me that excuse enough for not writing everyday this week. However I will try and be more disciplined and keep up with each day. It will be much easier next week because I have so many amazing things planned!

   June is almost over and it is time to travel! When it comes to traveling my motto is "Just Go." I wouldn't say to go an never look back. Going to a new place doesn't have to be due to some fatal flaw of the place you are leaving. There are many other reasons to visit a new place.

1.) New Adventure 
2.) New Experiences 
3.) New Local Culture
 
   Picture this. 11 year old is at home, getting ready for her first middle school dance, staring two pairs of shoes down. One pair, a reliable flat that's been on her side for a solid year. The other, a slightly elevated heal, never been worn. The purpose of one is extremely practical and safe. The other is a tad bit risky and a little more fun with a side of possible danger. She goes with the more exciting pair. Through the night she pseudo trips twice and falls into a chair once. Nothing earth shattering. She took a chance because why not! She ventured into new depths, or rather new heights! She didn't shy away from something new. Six years later and she goes to senior prom. The question isn't flats or heels, it's which pair of heels looks better with my dress. Not a hint of doubt that bigger is always better.
 
   “The purpose of life is to live it, to taste experience to the utmost, to reach out eagerly and without fear for newer and richer experience.”
Eleanor Roosevelt 
Take a chance, go for it. Pick a place and go for it.


 

Friday, June 20, 2014

100 Days to Happiness: Just Good

Have you ever had a day where nothing went terribly wrong and you were just happy? Yeah remember those days when you're having a not-so-awesome-day. 

Thursday, June 19, 2014

100 Days to Happiness: A Plate Full of Thanks

   Steak. I love steak. I love food! So often I take for granted the overflowing abundance of food that I have to indulge in daily, much like many other first world delicacies.


   My older sister is going to Africa this summer to work in the slums with a group known as HOPE World Wide. The work that they will be doing will greatly impact many of the residents' lives, including many children whose circumstance is widely different from my own. They don't have the luxury of opening a fridge to see it's been heavily stocked. Yet when I open mine, I complain that there is "nothing to eat." 
   I came home from work  today with the fully cooked meal (seen in the picture above) waiting for me. After misusing the term "starving" I scarfed down the food without a second thought. The joy that it brought me made me wonder what it might be like to be in the shoes of the African children. 
"Gratitude turns 
what 
we have into enough."
   Even without a plate of food, they still find joy. They are able to look into a half empty fridge and see it as full. Not trying to get all corny on you but you can see where this is going. Life is that fridge. No matter how many opportunities are missed or how many challenges may arise, you're still alive and you still have purpose.
I know that even though I'm not fine dining on steak every night, I know that I am loved and taken care of.
   

Wednesday, June 18, 2014

100 Days of Happiness: 15 minutes of meditation

   Take some time to yourself. Time to just sit and be still. On this busy journey we call life, those 15 minutes can make all the difference in our moods. 
   Today I sat and thought about where I am and where I want to be. From there my thought train ran wild. I had to be sure that I didn't allow self doubt to creep in. Even in such a short period of time I let my busy life take control of my thoughts, the exact opposite reason for my brief moment of solitude. 
   It's only natural that we think about the future, it is an important thing to keep in mind. However it's not the not important. All we are promised is now so in my little experience on this Earth, don't waste now. Take advantage of "now". Not in the sense of using "now" to get ahead, at least not all of the time. Take advantage of "now" before "now" has passed by. 

Tuesday, June 17, 2014

100 Days To Happiness: One Good Book

   It has come to my attention that I really enjoy reading. It's like I was put on a default setting to involuntarily respond to any literary recommendation, "Oh, I don't read," and move on with my life. I didn't spend an abundance of time  reading, true, but I have always enjoyed books. I just didn't want to take the time to read them. Now that I have all this free time to anything, and a spirit of adventure, I've picked up my old habit of indulging in great literature. I think I have one man to thank for that. John. Green.
   When I got to middle school and teachers started assigning me books to read I lost interest in the magic of a great novel. Reading wasn't cool anymore and neither was writing papers. The whole meaning and purpose of books was forever lost, or so I thought. Have you ever just read a book and when you finished put it down and then picked it up to read it again? Have you read something that beautiful? If not, you're not reading the right books. Additionally, you will lose hope in the writers as a whole.
   Until you read a book that restores your faith in humanity, and literature. John Green. He is a literary genius. I've made it my summer mission to read every single book that he has written. First, The Fault In Our Stars. From the moment I opened it and read the first line of that very first page, I was hooked. He is able to say something so profound that is followed by a subtle, hilarious truth. The only way I have been able to describe that specific novel is as heartwarmingly heartbreaking.

    Second, Paper Towns. Although this novel is widely different from TFIOS, I am still amazed at how well this man writes. His characters are given so much life that I can't choose a face I have seen in real life, my brain is forced to create an entirely new, just as real image. As I read and enjoy the story, I am witnessing each characters life with a front row seat. Not only does John Green captivate you with his language. He is able to incorporate such beautifully profound truths that most people are thinking but can't find the words to say out loud. For example, it's easy to get caught up in being prudent and making sure your prudence has prudence. This is what John Green has to say about living for the future.
   "Did you know that for pretty much the entire history of the human species, the average life span was less than thirty years? You could count on ten years or so of real adulthood, right? There was no planning for retirement. There was no planning for a career. There was no planning. No time for planning. No time for a future. But then the life spans started getting longer, and people started having more and more future, and so they spent more time thinking about the future. Every moment of your life is lived for the future-you go to high school so you can go to college so you can get a good job so you can get a nice house so you can afford to send your kids to college so they can get a job so they can get nice house so they can afford to send their kids to college."

   What he is basically saying is that the future is already here although it hasn't happened. It is already controlling our actions. Not necessarily a bad or good thing, just a truth about what going on in the world. I sometimes forget that in the midst of the fiction there is a man, and that man probably believes at a percentage of what he is writing. That man actually thinks such profound thoughts and that man wrote them down for the world to see and that just warms my heart.
   Thank you, John Green, for writing good books and having deeply profound thoughts. But most of all thank you for restoring my love for reading, my faith in humanity, and for making me just all out happy! I know this won't be the last time I enjoy your books. Third, Looking For Alaska.

Saturday, June 14, 2014

The Party's Just Begun

  Over the last few months I have started at least five posts for this blog. Obviously all five have been a complete bust because I didn't publish a single one. I couldn't get the words right. I didn't want to publish just for the sake of publishing; I wanted my words to matter; if not to anyone else, to me. I found a few quotes here and there each day but nothing that resulted in an awe-inspired piece of writing. Until last night.


   Recently my class of seniors entered the "real world." Naturally, the week prior to the ceremony we were all buzzing with excitement. It may have been the fact that, finally, we were going to be finished with public school. There is a distinct moment that someone becomes very aware what graduating actually means. Freedom, yes but I think this change is more about being free to live your life. It's about what comes next and what you choose to do with that newfound freedom.

   At the end of the graduation they played a slideshow from the year. Along with a stream of pictures of every senior, Phillip Phillips' Home played along to epitomize the years that will follow such a life-changing event:

"Hold on, to me as we go

As we roll down this unfamiliar road

And although this wave (wave) is stringing us along

Just know you're not alone
Cause I'm gonna make this place your home

Settle down, it'll all be clear

Don't pay no mind to the demons

They fill you with fear

The trouble it might drag you down

You get lost, you can always be found



Just know you're not alone

Cause I'm gonna make this place your home"


   It's a very appropriate song for a room full of students preparing to embark on a new and excitingly terrifying journey. But it goes beyond graduations I think. Every day we are given a chance of a new adventure. And with that adventure there are going to be risks. That’s the beauty of living, and of adventure.

   Although there is a nothing new under the sun, each day brings about a new set of wonders and a new set of challenges that may be new to your eyes. With each amazing new discovery be sure to have something to hold onto. Whether it is a conviction or a person -anything that will help you become unshakeable. Like it says in this song, this road is unfamiliar, the song does not say that it impossible.  

   Throughout life, decisions will need to be made. Actions will need to be taken. If you’re anything like me, those two things are undeniably and unavoidably terrifying. For instance, I have to pick where I want to live. Stay here in Austin or go to away to Lubbock. One option is a better financial option and the other is what I want. Whatever I choose, I know I won’t be there on my own. I have a family of friends here and a family of friends waiting for me there. The same is true wherever life takes you. As long as you remember you’re not alone, any city in the world can become your home.

   So the next time you’re thinking about being afraid to live your life because of the mundane fears of everyday life, don’t. Risk is out there. That’s the beauty of living, and of adventure.
 
   There is a beautiful quote from the movie Steel Magnolias that says “I would rather have 30 minutes of something wonderful than a lifetime of nothing special.” Though it’s true, you only live once; the screaming of “YOLO” ad nauseam gets old extremely fast. I love this because the message of carpe diem and YOLO derived from good intentions. The intention that life is meant to be lived without fear and without regrets. Each day is a gift, and every gift must be opened in order to be find something wonderful.



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If you keep up with my sporadic posting I can't say how much I appreciate you. I wanted to let you know that This summer I will be challenging myself on posting a little something everyday. There is a trending hashtag, #100happydays. I will be doing my own variation titled 100 Days To Happy, where I share something that either made me happy that day along with a quote that has to do with happiness. So stay tuned for more exiting posts. Have a joy filled summer!